Fix the invalid behavior in the detector to determine whether the binding object needs to be updated.

[CharlesQQ]

What would you like to be added:
After restart karmada controller, detector will always update some rb resource, those resourcebindings have dependent resources

I0224 17:12:12.236354   17981 detector.go:] Update ResourceBinding(default/xxxx-deployment) successfully.

I add new log to compare the changes in resources before updating; The reason is that the finalizers field of rb has changed from karmada.io/binding-controller,karmada.io/binding-dependencies-distributor to karmada.io/binding-controller

	existing := obj.DeepCopyObject()
	if err := mutate(f, key, obj); err != nil {
		return controllerutil.OperationResultNone, err
	}
	patchBytes, err := generateJSONPatch(existing, obj)
	if err != nil {
		panic(err)
	}
	diff := cmp.Diff(existing, obj)
	klog.Infof("after mutate,   %s , equal: %v \n", string(patchBytes), equality.Semantic.DeepEqual(existing, obj))
	if equality.Semantic.DeepEqual(existing, obj) {
		return controllerutil.OperationResultNone, nil
	}

	if err := c.Update(ctx, obj); err != nil {
		return controllerutil.OperationResultNone, err
	}
	return controllerutil.OperationResultUpdated, nil

Why is this needed:
Performance optimization, reducing invalid updates to existing resources during restart and reducing work queue resource pressure

[XiShanYongYe-Chang]

In favor of #6157
/assign @CharlesQQ

[RainbowMango]

/remove-kind feature
/kind bug

This is more like a bug.